New to Blogging & Mommyhood

I've seen where numerous moms and people have jumped on the blogging bandwagon.  I finally decided to jump aboard myself, so here goes!  My husband and I have been parents now for almost 3 months.  Our son, Gavin Miles Jourdan, was born August 26, 2010.  It was truly the most amazing experience that we have ever had together.  People often tell you how wonderful and unbelievable it is, but it is one of those things that you must experience in order to really understand to the fullest.  Although amazing, parenthood has been difficult and has called for numerous adjustments.  I NEVER in a million years envisioned myself as a stay-at-home mom.  I've always been very career-minded...went to lawschool, graduated, practiced personal injury and workers' compensation, and strived to rise to the top in the legal profession.  All up until we got pregnant with our sweet little angel.  The closer I got to having him, the harder it was for me to even think about having to leave him and go back to work.  By the time I had him, I cried at the thought.  Thankfully, I have been blessed with a wonderful, supportive husband who felt the same way.  We prayed about it and God made a way for me to become a stay-at-home mom, temporarily (after all, I still have some of the career-minded traits lingering within).  My husband took a job working 3 night weekends, which has blessed us with an increase in income that will allow us to live comfortably while I'm off work.  Who knows how long I'll be off, but we'll take it one day at a time and leave it in the Lord's hands.  There are some days where I miss working, especially when I reconnect with old friends in the legal field, but then I look at our precious little boy and he overrides any of those feelings. 

Initially, adjusting to mommyhood was more difficult than I expected.  Especially, while dealing with the hormones!!! Oh my word!!!  All I could think was, "Nobody told me about this part of it!"  I was up and down all the time, and often felt like I wasn't doing a good job at being a mommy.  Once again, prayer saved the day and rescued me from this.  Also, my hubby was AMAZING throughout this...I know I couldn't have gotten through it without him.  We have adjusted somewhat to the sleepless nights, which have improved since Gavin has gotten older.  My husband and I also had to learn to adjust to the fact that we didn't have as much "us" time, which was indirectly effecting both of us.  We were used to going on as many dates as we wanted and doing whatever we wanted whenever we wanted.  We knew these things would change once our little one arrived, but once again, you don't realize how much or the effect until it happens.  We are still making adjustments, but things have certainly balanced out as time has gone by.  Overall, we love being parents and could not imagine our lives being any other way!